I Can’t Hold Back Sexual Urge Towards My Daughter – Widower Cries Out

Residents of the Byazhin area of
Kubwa, a satellite town in the
Federal Capital Territory, FCT,
Abuja were in the wee hours of
Sunday thrown into shock as a
certain man, identified only as
Matthew tried to have s*x with his
20-year-old daughter, Patience
(pseudonym).
DAILY POST gathered that Matthew,
a 51-year-old civil servant lost his
wife to the cold hands of death
over a year ago during child birth.
Sources close to the family
disclosed that Matthew had bluntly
refused to re-marry, saying his
hands were tied as he may not be
able to marry the one he loves.
When our reporter got to the scene
of the incident, the victim who had
a towel tied round her chest said
she would commit suicide if her
father does not leave her alone.
Speaking on what transpired
Sunday morning, Patience told our
reporter, “It’s been over a year my
mother died during child bearing.
I have a younger sister and a
younger brother, they are both in
boarding schools in Kogi state. So,
all the time, I am left alone in the
house with my father.
“I have not been able to gain
admission into the University
because of JAMB issues. It all
started two weeks after my mother
died.
My dad came to my room to
console me while I was thinking
and crying over my mother’s
demise which I have not been able
to come to terms with.
“It was completely different and
questionable how my father started
touching me, asking me to stop
crying.
In the midst of all that, my father
started touching my breast. I
jumped off the bed and he asked
me why I was acting strange, that
he was only consoling me.
“This act continued for some time
and I could not tell anyone because
no one may believe me since we
should unexpectedly be mourning
still.
“This morning, I was trying to have
my shower when my dad busted
open the bathroom door Unclad. He
said he is in love with me and he
can no longer hold himself.
I grabbed my towel and ran out of
the house screaming. He tried to
stop me.
“Neighbours came around and
questioned me and I narrated
everything to them,” Patience
added, sobbing.
On his part, her father, when asked
to tell his own side of the story,
said, “I can no longer deny that am
in love with her.
I doubt if I am her real father
because ordinarily, I should not feel
this way. Whenever I see her, I
have this sexual urge. I am dying
inside, I need help.”
Speaking further, Mathew opened
up to our reporter that he wishes to
re-marry but whenever the thought
comes to his mind, all he sees is his
20-year-old daughter.
“What can I do? He quizzed
rhetorically. I see her in my dreams
making love to me and when I
wake up to try, it never works. I’m
losing my mind,” Matthew added.
Meanwhile, a source in the know of
the incident said all had not been
well since the woman died.
The source who did not want her
name mentioned in print, said, “I
have suspected this all the while but
didn’t say or do anything about it.
“Sometimes, I hear her screaming,
‘daddy, leave me alone please, I am
your daughter’.
“This is tragic. I will never kill
myself over a man because the
moment I die, he would not even
mourn me one bit,” she said,
seemingly in a personal opinion.
“The deceased will be totally
disappointed at this, if only corpses
could wake up,” she added in a
lighter note.
A police officer in the area who
identified himself as Bashir Adamu
said this is not a police case. It is a
family issue and should be resolved
as such.
However, checks by this newspaper
revealed that Patience is 3 months
pregnant for her lover, one Samuel
Udo.
Speaking on this development,
Patience said, “I got pregnant
intentionally so my father would
stop bothering me, yet he did not.”
She, however, insisted that her
father had never succeeded in
having sexual intercourse with her
despite trying, and that her lover
was responsible for her pregnancy.
She said, “When I told my father I
was pregnant, he did not say a
word, instead, he kept professing
love to me.
“All he said was he wished he was
the father of the baby as he sees his
wife (my mother’s) replica in me.”
An elder brother to Matthew, when
contacted, said he was in shock
over the incident.
He said the family members would
look into the issue and due action
would be taken.
“This is an abomination,” the Kogi
state indigene stated.